Wednesday could not be more different from Thursday. Wednesday is all action: hikes, building campfires, setting a tent up blindfolded.
Thursday is all textbook.
Dewey’s three-step process explains the cyclical nature……but, Kolb uses a four-step cycle that is an interpretation of Lewin’s work….Pfeiffer and Jones’ model has five steps….Priest’s has six steps….
Good lord, they have analyzed the bejesus out of how we learn and teach in the great out-of-doors.
In the midst of this hurricane of words comes along one singular phrase that intrigues me: Adaptive Dissonance.
The sum of our efforts this semester may center around this phrase. It has become our goal to learn how to place clients/students in situations in which they choose to overcome a dissonance we have created for them by adapting their behaviors to meet their intended objectives.
If you have run a marathon, you understand adaptive dissonance. How many have stood at the starting line, looked down the course and wondered how on earth they could survive 26.2 miles – regardless of their training or the fact that runners all over the world have indeed finished the distance before us. And yet, the gun fires and step by step we convince ourselves, adapt ourselves and our minds to finish this race…..we will run this distance and we will reach our goal.
The topic took a different direction for me this week. Catching up on my reading one day, the latest Runner’s World dropped into my email. The cover story was Lauren Fleshman’s challenge.
Lauren, a Pro Runner, was captured in a photo during NY Fashion Week in the Oiselle show. She was stunning. The dissonance between that photo and what she knew to be real life, however, bothered her so much that she stunned us again with a post that showed her true “off-runway” postpartum figure. For me, that was a very brave thing to do.
I admit. I enjoy seeing beautiful models – their clothes, make-up, the walk down the runway…their style. They inspire me.
That picture was what we all want to feel about ourselves, myself included. I spent my teenage years looking at fantasy photos like that and feeling inadequate. And now it was my body in that photo.
Lauren Fleshman, Runner’s World
A fashion blogger wrote a post this week on how the Au Naturel look comes and goes on the runway. Her point was that achieving the natural look is much more complicated than one might realize. I agree.
So many things in life – sports, make-up, theatre, writing – can look effortless when in fact this thing has taken great effort and practice.
When I saw Lauren’s reveal I wondered, how can this be? This is not the look I expect to see in a professional athlete. Then I asked myself, what would I think if I viewed her as a mother of a 3-month old instead?
It changes your view. She is a beautiful mother. She has also run the marathon in 2:37:23. In the 5000 meter final of the 2011 IAAF World Championships, she finished 7th place, equaling what was at the time the highest ever finish by an American woman in that event (in 2013 Molly Huddle finished 6th). Lauren is an accomplished athlete.
Blame the Puritans, blame Glamour, blame Photoshop if you want, but at some point we have to stand up and own the body we’re shakin’. We have to make a statement that “THIS IS REAL” and move forward. Lauren Fleshman
Let’s don’t leave this as a corporate issue, belonging to H&M, Victoria Secret, the magazines or the runways. We can resolve this dissonance. We, the viewers, should find the true beauty in the Au Naturel.
Lauren’s runway shot is the athlete I want to admire. I’ll be honest, I see in her the athlete I would like to be. I also see what I expect an athlete to look like.
Hopefully, nothing I have written implies we should not strive to be all we can be.
Wouldn’t it be ideal to be all we can be and then be happy, content….proud of who we are.